Nights In White Satin

Hello!!! (We are alive)

2011-03-16T10:04:00.000-07:00

This is just a short and sweet update because we haven't posted in a while. Life is hectic! And yes we are still here.

I've been up the wall with work, it's non-stop. I know Tyler is the same. On top of that we are desperately trying to get our acts together so we can move in together. This long distance has just become too much and it's not what I want. I know I've found the man I want to spend the rest of my life with and come hell or high water that is exactly what I am going to do. Getting my affairs in order so I can move is time consuming and frustrating. Luckily my job is one of those that I will be able to move with it so that is something at least. Everything else is up in the air.

However, we are going to make time to be together this weekend and I really cannot wait! I'm beyond excited about it. Most of it will probably be spent in bed and do you know what I think we both deserve it.

Hopefully when we get everything sorted out and things fall into an easier pattern we will be back to posting on a more regular basis. Until then we are a little scattered but we are still here and together is the only thing we know.

Genevive xxx

e[lust] #23

2011-02-22T14:19:00.000-08:00

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Roadmaps of Consent - I fucking love consent. I love safewords. I can be much more cruel, and push much harder, if I trust my partner to tell me when I go too far.

Staying Safe - One cock, from one man, missing one condom, ultimately led to my brother’s death. And that sucks.

Flying the Friendly Skies - One button on her sweater was undone, there was a rip in her hose, scratches on her boots, and her hair was carelessly pinned back with stray wisps of hair escaping. There was a curious flavor of soiling about her, something a bit dirty and unkempt.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

Labels and my thoughts... - In the past year and a half I have gone from being someone that was lost, without identity that fit, rattling around inside myself to someone that has names for what they are.

~ e[lust] Editress: Dangerous Lilly

See also: Pleasurists #116 and #117 for all your sex toy review needs

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Kink & Fetish

5 Kinky Toys from the Dollar Store

Alive in my Skin

Dacryphilia

Digitalized for Posterity

Eroti...ca

filthy...

He ripped a string of orgasms from me, and then ramped it up

Manual Dexterity

Nadia's Surprise

Orgasms, Spoons Rests, and Fishnets! (The Play Party)

Punishment, humiliation and bondage

Schoolgirl in Saturday Detention

Steeling The Show

Water torture

Erotic Writing

A Little Night Music

Afternoon darkness

Crisp White Linens

dancing with (& then kinkily fucking) the dj

In the Mirror

Lope

Morning Sex

My First Anal Sex

September 1935

Shutter

Schoolgirl Part 1

Teenage Bukkake

Transition

You're Gonna Keep My Soul

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

A Doggie Kind of Love

Ashamed?! Are You Kidding Me?

Giggles, Groans and Panting

I Can Imagine How You Feel

Sex As Love

6 Moves Men Need to Be Sex Gods in the Bedroom

Terminology Fundamentalism

The COME HITHER QUIVER -or- How To Squirt

This Love

What I Want

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Kink Network Announces the Opening of Their Adult Blog Host Kinky-Blogging.com

Porn, degradation, and Khan Tusion

Women With Two Vaginas

Kink, virginity and big-tittied whores

Our Relationship...The Next Step

2011-02-21T12:09:00.000-08:00

The distance between Genevive and myself is becoming too painful to bear. So we are considering and have been discussing the logical next step...moving in together. We both have lives and responsibilities so this is going to be a big step....but one we think will be worth it. We need to be together.

Recently we've spent more and more time together and being together just seems right. We feel complete together and incomplete when we are apart. We get on easily and naturally and our relationship has blossomed over the times we have seen each other.

We are organising things at the moment. So.....watch this space.

Tyler

Just Us - Valentines - HNT

2011-02-17T04:31:00.000-08:00

Our first Valentines day together and it was magical. Considering we were both feeling the love this week we decided to go with something a little more understated than our normal style of pictures. Hope everyone had as good a day and week :)

Happy HNT!

Genevive xxx

HNT - Search For Lost Treasure

2011-02-09T15:57:00.000-08:00

Tyler has found many wonderful things down Genevive's bra...... unfortunately, an iPhone wasn't one of them!

Happy HNT!

Tyler & Genevive

The Scent of Genevive

2011-02-06T14:59:00.000-08:00

Memories, and the emotions associated with memories, are prompted by certain smells. That is a scientific fact, apparently. I proved this to myself today when I was doing the laundry. Genevive isn't here at the moment but the clothes she wore during her last visit were still waiting to be washed...including her knickers.

Genevive wears totally impractical but very sexy panties, as you can see from the picture I took.

And when Genevive is aroused, she gets very, very wet. So the scent of her sex and arousal emanated from the pile of her clothing like an inviting drug.

I have never been a "panty-sniffer". But never before has a scent caught my imagination like the scent coming from her sexy knickers. I held them to my face and inhaled deeply the scent of her sex, the scent of my woman. My body reacted immediately. My nerves seemed to come alive all over my body and my cock twitched into life. I suppose it's simple....to my body, the smell of Genevive's sex is a signal to mate. It's primal.

And I love the smell of Genevive. She sometimes gets a bit embarrassed about it I think when I tell her that her smell is driving me wild. Well she used to but now she is getting used to it more. She has a very strong scent. If we are in bed making out, the scent of her arousal will come drifting from under the covers and drive me crazy. When I go down on her, her scent and taste are amazing.

So smelling her on the panties sent my body into instant "I need to fuck my woman" mode.

What do you think? Is panty-sniffing something unsavoury...reserved for dirty old men in raincoats hanging around their neighbour's washing lines.....or is it a good way to experience something of your absent lover?

Tyler

This love

2011-02-05T14:03:00.000-08:00

So Tyler and I talk quite a bit about sex and it's something we both love but its not all we are.

I'm madly in love with Tyler, it's all consuming and everything about our relationship excites me.

Before Tyler I had a very bad relationship. I don't like to dwell on it and I'm disappointed that I allowed such an abusive asshole to treat me as though I meant nothing. Today I read something on Twitter that brought it all home to me. It shoved it in my face just how lucky I am to have met a man who loves me and who I adore.

I got out of that relationship and I was in a bad place, looking back at it now I don't even recognise who I was then. I was a shell, broken. But, I began to rebuild myself.

I have an excellent friend, I owe so much to her but then she owes me the same I consider her to be family. She pointed out to me that I am worth something, I didn't believe her at the time but it made me want to be better.

There was still only so much I could do with myself though. I promised myself that I wouldn't enter into anything unless I knew he was right for me. I had given up if I'm honest. I didn't believe I deserved to be loved.

I straightened out my head, depression is a nasty thing and I've suffered from it quite a bit. However, I was lucky. I feel now as though the universe realised what a crap time I had and decided I deserved some happiness. I met Tyler.

Loving him is effortless. However I still didn't feel I was worth such an amazing man who loved me for myself. I had no self worth. The only thing I was sure of was that I wanted him in my life as my partner.

He made me feel special and loved. I thought love like this only existed in romance novels. Over time as we've been together I've changed dramatically and for the better. I'm far more confident in myself and my self worth has sky rocketed. I had never been completely naked in front of anyone but with Tyler naked just feels right and I'm entirely comfortable. He has shown me how truly amazing sex and intimacy can be. He has given me back the word no and choices in my life. I feel beautiful and sexy. He makes me feel like a woman should. I really couldn't ask for more than that. I have found the man I want to spend the rest of my life with and I plan on never letting him go.

Truly I'm the luckiest woman on earth!

Genevive

Vampire Gloves!

2011-02-05T11:51:00.000-08:00

So here is another review of an item from our bedroom drawer...the Kinklab Vampire Gloves.

What are they? The vampire gloves are simply a pair of leather gloves with sharp tacks sticking out from the fingers and thumb. Simple. Yet effective.

What do you get? You get a pair of gloves. My hands are quite large so I went for the size L and they fit snugly.

How do you use them? Again, simplicity is the key to the vampire gloves. Consider that as soon as you don the gloves, you now have claws sticking out of your fingers. Consider that you probably also have a naked lover in front of you. What do you do? Hehehehe.......

You can use the gloves in a couple of ways.

First of all you could put them on and do some spanking. Depending on how hard you spank, this can be quite painful for your partner. The gloves are sharp.

Or you can use them to grab your lover. I used the gloves on Genevive the other night by grabbing her shoulder and pressing my fingers hard against her skin. She was naked, blindfolded and lying on her stomach at the time...and as I grabbed her with a vampire-gloved hand, I used a flogger on her bottom. A slow tightening of the grip, pressing the tacks into the skin, seems to be the way to go if you are going to use them to grab and hold.

You can also drag the gloves across your lover's skin. It depends on the area you are dragging them across and how much pain your lover can take as to how hard you will want to press. The backs of the thighs and the arms are good places to drag...or at least we found that to be so. But be experimental....we certainly aren't finished exploring with these gloves yet. (I can almost hear Genevive cringing in delicious fear hehehe)

Using the gloves for sensation play while your lover is blindfolded will get quite the reaction. They won't know where you are going to touch them next, and whether it will be a grab and hold or a drag across the skin. Genevive cried out in surprise a few times when we played with the gloves.

I would recommend the vampire gloves. They are effective and versatile. The fact that you can deliver pain without actually having to hold anything in your hand is a plus, as is the fact that you can wear just one glove and use the other hand for other things such as using a flogger or stroking your lover delicately before delivering a vampire spank.

We're going to be using these again. We'll let you know what we get up to next with them.

Tyler

HNT - Two Are Better Than One

2011-02-02T17:19:00.000-08:00

Genevive

Tyler

Our 2nd HNT. Thanks for perving!

We took our pictures separately this week, although when I took Genevive's pic, she was leaning over me as I lay back on the bed. Grrrowl!

Thanks for any comments

Tyler & Genevive

Ass Apppreciation...Morning Fun

2011-01-31T02:25:00.000-08:00

Like most men, I usually wake up with a morning erection. When I am alone I deal with this by either ignoring it or (more usually) taking the matter in hand and playing with myself until I get release.

Lately though, Genevive and I have managed to spend a good deal of time together and when I have woken up with my "morning glory", she has been asleep beside me in bed.

So...what is a horny boy to do? ;)

I love Genevive's body. Everything about it turns me on....from her big gorgeous tits to her shapely, luscious ass. It is her ass I usually focus on in the mornings when I need release from my excited state.

I start while she is still asleep...and although somnophilia isn't a specific fetish of ours, Genevive does get turned on by the fact that I use her body while she is still sleeping. I take my cock in one hand and stroke her ass with the other. Genevive sleeps in a short nightdress and knickers which are definitely not practical but are definitely a turn-on, usually involving pretty frills or lace and which present her ass in a very pleasing way. So while I stroke myself, I slip a hand inside her knickers and stroke my fingers along the crack of her ass, squeezing her cheeks as my hand travels down her backside to the mound of her cunt. She moans in her sleep at my touch and I press my hard cock against the back of her knickers.

At some point she will wake up and moan, rolling over to give me better access to her. This is when I get up onto my knees above her, pulling her knickers down and wanking myself harder as I become more excited at the sight of Genevive's exposed body.

I squeeze her luscious ass cheeks and let my hands roam over the backs of her legs and her thighs, all the while playing with myself and feeling my load start to build. She moans with pleasure as I touch her. I part her cheeks to reveal her asshole and press my cock against her there. I push into her a little...just the tip of my cock. With no lube or preparation, we aren't going for anything more...still, it feels amazing. When we met, Genevive was an anal virgin but now she loves ass play.

After pressing myself into her ass and wanking over it, I feel myself ready to blow. It doesn't take long. I push the head of my cock between Genevive's ass cheeks, cry out, and spill my seed against her most intimate place. Stroking myself and milking out every last drop, I regain my breath then pull her knickers back up before lying next to her and holding her close.

As well as having lots of sex, we both masturbate a lot. Our morning ass play is just one of the things we like to do together. We'll write some more about our other activities as the blog goes on.

Tyler

Our First HNT

2011-01-27T06:48:00.000-08:00

So Tyler and I decided to try our hand at HNT and so this is our very first foray into this wonderful world.

This was taken this morning shortly after Tyler had finished filling me and was in the process of pulling my knickers back into place.

Happy HNT!

kisses Genevive

I Love...

2011-01-20T11:33:00.000-08:00

Tyler is feeling a bit under the weather these days. I hate to see him sick, it makes me wish I had a magic wand I could wave over him to make him feel better. It’s hard to watch someone you love suffer when they’re feeling ill. You’re never quite sure what you should be doing to make them feel better.

Tyler is a big guy in more ways than one. Not only is he strong and well built but his cock is thick and long and because of our love of fucking I find myself getting sore quite often. When he fucks me hard and his shaft slides into me it’s not long before I feel his cock hit the end of me.

I know some women are not fans of feeling of a cock slam into their cervix but I am. I adore feeling his cock press into me and hit the end of me it gives me such a thrill and I voice my appreciation of his deep thrusts. I’ve discovered though with constant deep fucking it’s not just my cunt that finds itself getting sore. Lately I’ve found all the inside of my womb and all the other bits and pieces in the area getting very sore. I will admit it’s weird to suddenly be aware of what you have inside but it’s something I am willing to have if it means I can feel my man bury his cock inside my body so deeply and release his seed into me.

But we’ve discovered something else that I adore having done and it saves my cunt from being pounded into oblivion but I’ll save that for another post. As I finish up on this post I’m watching Tyler on the couch opposite me as he works away on his laptop, busy little hot bee that he is. He’s sitting there in a dressing gown with just his boxers on underneath. Even though he is sick and completely exhausted it doesn’t stop me from contemplating going over to him and stroking his cock until he is hard and forgets all about his work...

e[lust] #22

2011-01-20T02:48:00.000-08:00

Photo courtesy of Lady Grinning Soul

Welcome to e[lust] - Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #23? Start with the rules, check out the schedule and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

Erotic asphyxiation: treatments of kink in therapy and the media - Kink and BDSM practitioners often come to an enhanced understanding of their own desires through the emphasis on personal boundaries and communicative consent which arises from a responsible approach to power and pain play.

Mirror, mirror - I found myself back there again, perched on the edge of the white expanse, spreading myself shamelessly in front of the glass

Worry - I’ve been thinking about rape culture more than ever before. On the outside, much of K’s and my play looks like sexual abuse. It’s not, because consent is always central.

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~

gender and misogyny: responsibility and erotic writing - I spent a good portion of my adult life being gender fluid myself ..., and have partnered with several gender fluid folks as a top. Creating representation of us and our eroticism feels so vital to me, so important.

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Help End the Backlog - Speaking out works. Taking action works. Silence doesn’t. Politicians on every level need to hear your voice saying “this is unacceptable”. 76%. 3/4. That’s how many rapists get away with it on a national level.

See also: Pleasurists #111 and #112 for all your sex toy review needs

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Erotic Writing

A Tryst By The Car

Compliant

Fantasy: Brand New Day

First-Time Sex: How I Lost My Virginity

Happy New Year

Hysteria

Indiscretions Vol. 1: Caught And Wild Chlid

Like Mother, Like Daughter (part two)

Loving her, Mounting her, Owning her

Merry Christmas Baby

O/One

Should Have

The Starlet

Undiscovered

Wax Off

Whenever I'm Alone With You

Yeeees. Date Night

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Breaking Up, Polyamory Style

Computer Sex

Douchebagopolis - When Communication Fails At A Swinger Party

Epiphora's best and worst sex toys of 2010

Good Head

Hormones & Biological Clock Ticking

Lockets, Sins and Ink

Off My Chest

Swing Shift Volume 39- One and Only

Semi-Rant Part Two

Kink & Fetish

Barely Cooking Christmas Party

Camp Smack That Ass!

Fucked in bondage

Fucking bitch

How He Does It

Master's Good Medicine

Paddled and Fucked

Parodies and Pizza Boys

Photographer

School Girl Night

shes and me...

You Know It Was Good When...

Loving Her, Mounting Her, Owning Her

2011-01-08T03:49:00.000-08:00

He collects her from the airport and during the short ride home the sexual tension in the car is almost tangible. They have been separated too long and their bodies cry out to feel the touch of the other. Occasionally he reaches over and strokes her leg through her jeans. He craves to touch her skin.

They arrive home, close the door against the outside world, and kiss. Lips and tongues meet with an electric contact...hands roam over each others bodies. Clothing becomes a nuisance and a barrier to their desire...to feel skin contact, to be close, to mate.

Hurrying upstairs they stand by the side of the bed and kiss again. This time, buttons and buckles are fumbles at by excited hands and clothing falls to the floor. The scent of her needful sex drives him wild. He throws her naked to the bed, onto her knees. She gasps at the sudden roughness and need in him but lifts her ass into the air, presenting herself to him. The sight of her in this position, waiting to be taken, enflames his desire and he climbs onto the bed behind her. His hard thick cock throbs with urgency.

He pushes into her, his thick shaft opening her cunt and filling it. He gasps as he feels the familiar sensation of her holding him snugly inside her body. Pushing all the way into her, he mounts her.

She moans with each thrust as he fills her cunt. His hands stroke her ass and the backs of her thighs as he fucks her. He watches his manhood as it plunders her cunt. Slick with her desire, his thick shaft slides deeply into her belly...each thrust bringing him pleasure. He begins to lose it.

Grabbing her hips tightly, he thrusts deep and hard into her. She feels him touch the end of her, totally filling her, and she cries out. His thrusts become savage, wild, as he tips over the edge of pleasure into ecstasy and his only all-encompassing desire is to fill this cunt and bury himself as deeply in it as he can.

He tells her he is going to cum, his voice desperate. She pushes back with her hips, urging him to release himself inside her. He cries out and explodes, spilling his thick seed. He thrusts into her eratically, uncontrollably, as his body attempts to plant his seed deep within her belly. A primal instinct to fill her with himself takes over and he cums with loud cries of joy. He pulls her ass back against him and continues to shoot deep.

Finally he is spent. She is whimpering. Filled with his seed, she remains on her knees as he strokes her shoulders, back and ass. Still inside her cum-soaked cunt, he re-affirms that this woman is his mate, his bitch, by intimate skin on skin contact. He has marked her inside as his.

He slips from her and they lay together on the bed...naked bodies entwined and close. It won't be long before they recover from this carnal reunion and experience each other again....

Tyler

Tease, Touch and Control

2011-01-01T17:38:00.000-08:00

So as I’m writing this post I’m sitting right beside Tyler on the couch. I adore spending time with him and really don’t think I get too spend half enough time with him. Unfortunately situations in reality prevent us from being together on a constant basis. This will be changing very soon but until then I have to make do with what I get.

As you may have noticed from the posts that Tyler has been posting we are a couple who likes to play. I enjoy trying new things and I know that when Tyler is in control I’m in for a very good time. However Tyler is not always the one who holds all the power. Yes I know in an all out fight he would over power me and he has proven his ability to restrain me on more than one occasion which I love. I know physically I’m simply not strong enough to over power my love but strength does not count for everything.

I know from personal experience that I have the ability to reduce my love to a quivering mess of need. A talent I use on a regular basis. Well a girl has to have some tricks up her sleeve when you’re in love with a seriously talented dom and lover.

Tyler has several very sensitive and sensual points on his body that I enjoy taking advantage of. I know that as he reads this he’ll know exactly what I’m talking about. But I do all this as he likes to describe it, “torture”, for a reason.

We are as a couple ridiculously highly sexed and leave us alone for more than a second at a time and we are likely to be all over each other. I simply can’t help myself when it comes to him. I crave being near him and have a constant need to touch him. Even as I sit here I have to stop myself from leaning over towards him and rubbing him. My need is so intense that I often wonder what it would be like if we could be constantly joined. How would it be if I could have his cock inside me all the time? Right before I wander off into another of my many fantasies I do have a reason I tease and arouse my love and then deny him.

Yes I know it sounds so cruel but it is a necessary evil. I crave touching and being near him and if I could I would have him buried inside my body all the time. But as it is we fuck so much that I do end up getting rather sore. I am quite delicate as women are and I happen to like it very rough which Tyler is more than happy to oblige me on. But if we did it as often as we liked it wouldn’t be long before neither of us were fit to do anything. So my teasing and touching of my love allows me to satisfy the need to be constantly touching him and drawing his need to the surface. It also means that when we do fuck the experience is so intense it leaves us both mindless. When he touches me it leaves me incapable of intelligent thought and we always end up in bed with him inside me. As I write this I can feel myself beginning to get wetter with simply the thought of what Tyler and I will be doing very shortly...

Some Items From Our Bedroom Drawer...

2010-12-28T15:49:00.000-08:00

After reviewing the cock rings and the cat, I grabbed a handful of items from our bedroom drawer that seem like they could be good candidates for future reviews.

In the picture are a pair of Vampire Gloves, a Lelo silk blindfold, a Death By Orgasm bullet vibrator, a Triple Wartenberg Wheel and a Suede Flogger.

If you'd like us to review any of these items next, leave a comment and let us know.

Of course we may decide to review something else entirely...we have new stuff coming in the mail as we speak. :)

Tyler

Some Cats Have 9 Lives...Others Have 9 Tails

2010-12-27T10:24:00.000-08:00

From being used throughout history on board ships as a flogger (where the phrase "let the cat out of the bag" comes from), the Cat O Nine Tails is now a BDSM bedroom accessory.

I have a Joyce Jones Cat O Nine Tails which is one of my favourite implements from the bedroom drawer.

The Joyce Jones Cat reeks of quality. Made of black leather with a sturdy handle and nine 18" long braided leather tails, this tool feels excellent to hold and use.

The tails and handle are just the right length so that in the hands of a top with some experience, this will feel like an extension of your own arm.

The thing is damn sexy, with its nine leather tails and the feeling of power and control it confers to its user.

So what can it do? Pain-wise the Cat can deliver a 'thud' or a 'sting'. The thud is easy...just aim for your partner's bottom or the backs of their legs and swing the tails. But remember that at 18" long, the tails will have some 'wrap', so be careful of the ends contacting hips or backs.

It isn't too hard to get a sting out of the cat if you know what you are doing. Use a whipcrack technique and you'll soon be delivering delicious stings to your target. I think Genevive can vouch for the effectiveness of the Cat's sting. She has had a red, marked bottom from the Cat being used with both thuds and sting techniques.

Want to go further and really ramp up the sensations? Use a figure of eight action and deliver a consistent barrage of blows.

There's really nothing to dislike about the Cat O Nine Tails. You can use it softly or as hard as you like so you are working within wide parameters as far as the amout of pain you can cause with it.

It looks good....it feels good....it makes a nice sound as the tails travel through the air and a satisfying thwack when it contacts flesh. It leaves lovely red marks and both thuds and stings.

The thing is pretty versatile as a bedroom tool and will empower anyone holding it.

In the hands of beginner wanting to get into BDSM, this could be used (carefully) as an introduction to flogging as long as the user practices first with their aim and remembers the wrap effect of the tails.

In the hands of more experienced users, the Cat can be used to deliver a sting as well as a thud and whip your partner into submission and pleasure.

Tyler

A Tale of Two Cock Rings

2010-12-23T15:34:00.000-08:00

So Genevive and I have decided to experiment with cock rings for a bit of fun. We have two: a Tracey Cox Supersex Love Ring, and a Durex Play limited edition Twinkle. We've had a play with the Twinkle but at the time we were desperate to fuck doggy style (which cock rings aren't really suited for) so we didn't really explore it fully.

So, here is a comparison of the two cock rings at first glance:

On the left is the Tracey Cox and on the right the Durex Play Twinkle.

At first glance the Tracey Cox looks better quality...it is thicker and appears bigger (I'll get back to that later) than the Twinkle.

Both rings contain a tiny vibrator. The main difference here is that the Tracey Cox has replaceable batteries (and comes with spares) but the Durex is disposable and has 20 minutes of life.

I put both vibes on at the same time and there is really no difference between the speed or noise. So as far as those factors go, there is nothing to choose between these two rings.

So I decided to try the rings on and this is where I got a surprise...

I tried the Tracey Cox first. Now this ring did look bigger but it turned out that the thicker material which gives this ring a higher quality look also means that the part that fits over the cock isn't as stretchy. Now my cock is quite thick and I had a problem with the Supersex Ring...it hurt when I wore it. You can probably see from this picture that the ring dug into me. In fact I can still feel a little pain now and I took it off half an hour ago.

So for me this is a deal-breaker. I definitely don't want to damage myself from wearing a cock ring that is too tight. For others, the Tracey Cox Ring may fit fine.....we are all different, right guys?.....but for me there is no way I could perform with a ring this tight on me.

In comparison, the Durex Twinkle is a winner because of what at first seemed its drawback...the thin material. Because it is thin, it is very stretchy and fit onto my cock with no problem at all. Yes it is snug, but that is the way it is supposed to be. It didn't dig into me though like the Supersex Ring.

I could certainly see myself playing with Genevive while wearing this cock ring.

It looks like the Tracey Cox is going to be relegated to the bedside drawer...although the little vibe is removable and could be fun on its own, and the spare batteries are a bonus.

I will write a post when we have given the Durex Twinkle a thorough test-drive. :)

Tyler

Our First Meeting

2010-12-22T15:32:00.000-08:00

The very first time Tyler and I met I was a ball of nerves. I can vividly recall sitting in the hotel lobby as I waited for him to arrive. Naturally his plane was late and diverted but he eventually made it.

From where I was sitting I watched him emerge from the taxi and my heart flipped in my chest. Before I ever met him I knew I was madly in love with him but seeing him really was something else, something special. I could observe him and he could not see me, it was a very intimate moment. As I stared at him out the window as he looked around and then got his bags from the taxi I could feel myself growing wet. I ached to touch him, I needed him and the feeling stole my breath.

But I was still very nervous... what if he didn’t like me or want me the way I wanted and needed him? He arrived into the lobby and for a minute he couldn’t see me because of where I was sitting.

When he poked his head around the edge of the chairs and smiled in that way that only Tyler can my heart stopped. He slipped into the seat beside me and his first words to me were, “Hello Gorgeous. You had nothing to worry about.”

I couldn’t help but smile back at him. Grabbing our bags he checked in and we made our way up to what would be our room for the weekend. I remember standing inside the window looking out at the view and then turning back to him. He gave me the perfect cuddle and I inhaled deeply of his skin. Tyler’s skin always smells amazing and not just because of the aftershave he wears but when you’re close to him just underneath the aftershave is his scent. It’s that smell that I adore, it’s what I love to wake up to in the morning as he leans over me and wraps his arms around me. Everything about his scent presses all my buttons in just the perfect order.

Anyway, I had supplied the drink and we cracked open a bottle of wine. I sat in the chair beside the bed and he sat at the end right beside me. His legs trapping mine against him. The alcohol went straight to my head because I was so excited and made me very chatty and a lot braver than I am normally.

I sat there thinking to myself that I wanted to kiss him to touch him and when he began showing me his tattoos it gave me the perfect excuse to run my fingers over his skin.

I’m not sure who suggested that the bed would be far more comfortable but I do know I wanted to be near him, touch him, kiss him. We kissed and it stole the air from my lungs, Tyler’s kisses are very sensual and each time we do kiss I find myself wanting more. I knew that night as we kissed that it wasn’t going to be enough for me, that I wanted more from him. In a matter of minutes we were desperately tugging and pulling at each others clothes until we lay with skin on skin. It was a perfect moment and one I will remember forever. The next perfect moment we shared was the first time he thrust himself inside me. God I get shivers just thinking about that. We might only have met a mere few minutes before but I felt as though I had known this man all my life and to have him inside me was right, it felt right to me. The second he entered me it was as though all the pieces I had been missing finally fell into place and I saw the world differently. He was the centre of my universe and every choice in my life had led me to that moment when I would finally feel my soulmate complete me. It’s an intoxicating experience and for the first time in my life I came simply from him fucking me.

Our weekend was spent touching and exploring each others bodies pure indulgence. Taking Tyler to the airport at the very end though was hell and not something I wanted to do but alas that is the price one pays for being in a long distance relationship.

Our First Meeting - Tyler's Perspective

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I had no idea until much later that Genevive was watching me as I got out of the taxi. So I was unaware of her eyes on me as I got my bags and entered the hotel lobby. After a little searching around the bar area, I spotted her sitting on a sofa, surrounded by her bags.

Genevive is beautiful. She has a pretty face, mesmerising green eyes, and a figure that takes my breath away. And that is what happened the first time I saw her. I sat next to her and said "Hello, Gorgeous" (now our standard greeting) and it was as if we had known each other all our lives. Yes, that sounds cliche but it is totally true. I have never felt like I have to put on an act with Genevive, or try to be something I'm not, or even try to put across my best qualities all the time. With her I am real. Just me.

We got to our room and opened a botle of red wine. We were both nervous. We'd chatted for hours and hours before this meeting but everyone had warned me that there might not be a "spark" when we met in the flesh.

Well there was much more than just a spark, and our flesh was soon pressed together as we lay naked on the bed. I remember undressing Genevive for the first time and discovering her body. I still thrill as much today as I did then when I see her beautiful big breasts, curvy hips and luscious ass.

Being inside her was incredible. She fit around me snugly...we fit together perfectly. She got on her on her knees and I mounted her......claiming her as mine.....my female, my mate.

Genevive came from having me inside her and as we lay on the bed after we were finished, she had her eyes closed and a big grin on her face. She looked like the cat that got the cream...hehehe.

We loved being together in every way. I just couldn't get enough of her.

When I had to return home, I knew I had found someone I wanted to be with always.

Welcome to Our Blog

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Genevive is my very beautiful and very sexy other half and we have a long distance relationship at the moment. Here on our blog we are going to share everything with you about ourselves.

We met on twitter . Neither of us was looking to meet anyone but we found each other there. When tweeting each other wasn’t enough, we moved to yahoo messenger and skype. I remember when I first heard Genevive’s voice. She has a very pretty voice. We were both so nervous during that first conversation and it flew by in a haze of laughter and rambling. It was oh so good though. After that we both calmed down and spent hours and hours talking. We had so much in common and the time just raced by.

When we met in person, we clicked immediately. It was like we had known each other for years. I had already fallen in love with Genevive even before we met, but now I could see her, talk to her face to face, and touch her...I fell even deeper.

We connect on so any levels...as friends, confidantes, partners, and lovers. Our relationship is intense.

Tomorrow, I go to pick Genevive up from the airport and bring her back here. Seeing her again will be amazing, as it always is. And one of the things I look forward to is being inside her again. Her body is sensual and exciting. We connect as lovers in a deep way and because of our enforced separation between meetings, we make the most of our time together between the sheets. We are going to tell you about it. Along the way, we will be trying out and reviewing various toys too. Oh, and there will be photos.

Enjoy!

Tyler

Hello

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So, my first post on a blog I share with my very hot other half Tyler. I spent the day wondering what I would say in this first post and well as they say start at the beginning so...

Tyler and I met on twitter, neither of us were looking for anything like this, I liked messing and generally chatting with people but it was more of a networking thing. I did not expect to meet the man of my dreams on it. And yes I know that sounds terribly clichéd but if it’s the truth then that is what it is. I quite happen to like some clichés.

Our relationship developed very fast which was something else that surprised me. Not only was I not looking for someone but I found him and I fell hard! I can remember the first time trying to tell him I loved him, I felt so awkward and I’m normally quite articulate, comes with what I’m trained in. But my God pulling teeth would have been easier... pulling my own teeth out by hand would have been easier. I was so afraid he would think I was nuts, or run a mile. You hear all those lovely stories about guys who get cold feet and I was petrified I would scare him off... How wrong was I! Not only did he not run a mile, he said those three magic words before I could even find the breath to get them out.

I’m not too ashamed to say I cried when he said it... I was so happy...

So that was the first time we said the I love you. The next post I’ll tell you about our first meeting... I know it all seems a bit higgledy piggeldy but I have something better for this post right now...

As I sit here, my bags are packed in my room and tomorrow I fly to see my love. It has been seventeen days since I last seen him... I need him like I need air for survival. I’m so excited I’m afraid I might pop! Mmmm seeing him at the airport and then when we get back to the car... I’m not sure how I am meant to last the drive back to what will be our house... I am wet at the thought.

When we do get back I have a plan, seventeen days without feeling his touch or caressing his skin is a long time. I’ve bought pretty new lingerie especially for this. I plan on stripping for him very slowly, each piece of clothing removed revealing my body to his eyes. Then when I’m down to my new pretty things, I intend on getting on my knees, licking and sucking the tip of his cock before engulfing it with my hot wet mouth. I want to give him the pleasure he deserves. I know he won’t let me finish him then and that is ok because when he can’t take anymore I’ll crawl on my knees up onto the bed and he will take me from behind.... Mmmmm so yes I am very excited about tomorrow and the best part is I am with him until Saturday!

So as introductory posts go I think this gives a clue as to what I’ll be writing about here... ;)

I promise to let you know how the reunion went.

Love Genevive xxx